Performing funeral and memorial services has historically been an important contribution of Buddhism to Japan and other Asian countries. These ceremonies offer a meaningful transition for both the deceased and their loved ones, providing a sacred space in which to acknowledge death, express grief, and honor the life that has been lived.
Zen Fields’ clergy are available to accompany you and your family through this time, offering Buddhist teachings, ritual, and compassionate presence during a time that can otherwise feel overwhelming.
Buddhist teaching reminds us that everything changes, including the people we love. Ceremony gives that truth a form we can hold: a place to grieve, to give thanks, and to let someone go with care.
If someone you love has died, please reach out. You don’t need to have anything arranged or figured out. We’ll take it one step at a time. Our clergy can accompany your family through the funeral and memorial process, helping you honor your loved one and navigate this difficult time with care and compassion.
You don’t need to be a member of Zen Fields, or a Buddhist, to ask for our help. Families of other or mixed traditions are welcome, and we’re glad to include readings or customs that matter to your family.
Services can be shaped to your family’s needs, including readings or music that were meaningful to the person who has passed.
A service may include:
Chanting
An incense offering
Words from the priest
Time for family and friends to share memories
Options might include funeral services, graveside services, and memorial services.
Depending on your family’s needs and the arrangements, services may be held at a funeral home, a family home, or another location.
As you consider end-of-life care and your wishes for what follows, you may wish to formally designate Zen Fields’ clergy to perform your funeral and subsequent memorial services.
By designating them in advance, you can make your wishes known and give your loved ones the reassurance of having a familiar spiritual community to turn to when the time comes.
A few simple steps can help:
Tell your family or those close to you about your wishes.
Put your wishes in writing, and note them in your will or advance directive.
Let us know, so our clergy are aware of your wishes.
If you’re also considering a legacy gift, see our Legacy Giving page.
Memorial services can also provide an ongoing opportunity to remember and honor the deceased, while supporting those who continue to grieve and adjust to life after their loss.
Memorials on the 49th day or on anniversaries may offer meaningful opportunities to remember a loved one and honor their life.
Spiritual counseling is available for those who would like individual support.
Whether you are seeking support after the loss of a loved one or thinking ahead about your own wishes, we are here to listen and help you explore the next steps.
You don’t need to have everything figured out before starting the conversation. Whether you have questions about funeral or memorial services, would like to discuss your plans for the future, or simply want to learn more about how our clergy can support you and your family, we welcome you to get in touch.
Every family’s needs and wishes are different. We will take the time to listen, answer your questions, and help you consider what may be meaningful for you and your loved ones.
Please don’t hesitate to reach out. We would be honored to accompany you and your family through this time.
